it was hot that day.
i sat outside the church with adah and rose, their laughter ricocheting off the steel walls of the school. i was showing them pictures of russ’ cooking from my iPhone and they were tickled that a man did the cooking in my household.
my mind was elsewhere.
on the way up the hill, i noticed a woman doing laundry. nothing too out of the ordinary, except the water she was using.
it was dirty….no, it was filthy.
she sat there confidently, immersing each piece of cloth in the tiny stream running through the slum. the same stream i saw little kids use the restroom. the same stream i saw animals walk around and drink out of, bathe and rest. the same stream that stained my tennis burnt colors of browns and yellows.
the same stream most of these people in kibera got their water. 
i started talking to rose & adah about the water issue. i asked where they got their water – and they told me they fetched it every night. i asked where. eyes wide, they told me it was far enough to take a few hours – and sometimes this put them home after dark.
my heart flinched at the thought of these two precious girls walking the streets of kibera at night.
i asked if it were easier to just get water from kibera, and they nodded their heads. there are cleaner water stations – but those are sometimes too far. most often, the girls are required to fetch water after returning from school. most often, these girls are raped or beaten on the road. sometimes there’s no water left when they reach the well.
this seems serious. and it’s really easy to close our eyes and focus only on what we see and hear now. i have a glass of clean water in front of me. i only need to walk down the hall and get ice out of a filtered machine and fill my cup with water from a brita. my own hypocrisy is burdensome.
i’m close to tears just thinking about it. the injustice can be gripping at times – i complain about the temperature of my clean water. i complain about the taste of my clean water. i live in a society where companies design water bottles made of diamonds…and then fill the bottle with clean water.
something needs to be done.
the truth: americans will spend 450 billion dollars on christmas gifts this year.
it only takes 10 billion to provide the world with clean water.
our excess means their need.
today, we can change this.
a couple months ago, my friend Prudence contacted me about an idea. she wanted to blog for water – and i thought it was brilliant. water is something we all use – and any donation can be significant in the lives of those who don’t have access to clean water. reading her e-mail, i couldn’t help but think of my girls in the slum. the same time i’m walking down a lit hallway towards filtered water, they are braving the sun sinking below the horizon before they return from their daily walk for water.
a little can go a really long way.
you can give water – clean water – for Christmas.
will you join us?
go here to donate. what’s amazing about charity:water is that 100% of your donations goes directly to building a well in a community with no access to clean water. AND…charity:water works with the community – training them to be as sustainable as possible – which ensures the longevity of the project.
want to help spread the word? use the hashtag #PrudyChickH20 on twitter.
my dream: walking the hills of kibera and seeing the women experience what it’s like to use clean water for their daily chores. it may be farfetched. but i like to believe in the impossible.
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want to check out the other ladies writing with me today?




Prudence
December 15, 2010
I’d forgotten about the rapes. It’s utterly heart breaking. Especially knowing the heart of God. Especially knowing YOUR heart. Thank you for writing with me. I can’t express my gratitude in words, so expect a long hug when we meet. Love you friend.
eloranicole
December 15, 2010
i’ll take the hug.
and you’re more than welcome. i woke up this morning with kibera on my mind. thank YOU for that reminder.
love you.
Mary Hess
December 15, 2010
Beautiful post and reminder. I’ve never been to Kibera or anywhere outside of the USA but I sure want to do whatever I can to help out.
Have a great day!
eloranicole
December 16, 2010
thanks for commenting, Mary! [and thanks for joining us in writing for water!]
Amy Sullivan
December 15, 2010
This is such an amazing post. Thanks for making this more than just statistics, but making it real, and something we can feel.
So glad to get to know you more through this push for clean water!
eloranicole
December 16, 2010
likewise, Amy!
kim whitten
December 15, 2010
I’m sitting with chills!
It’s hard to think about the nameless, faceless millions who have to experience this travesty, but for you to actually have names and faces to go along with the story, makes it even more REAL.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
xo
eloranicole
December 16, 2010
yesterday was pretty difficult – allowing myself the brief moment of remembering adah & rose and their laughter…i miss africa so much it hurts sometimes. i want to tell her story as much as possible.
Jenny
December 15, 2010
hardest thing about Africa… Kibera especially… realizing that the kids play in the “water” that is really sewage refuse. We take so much for granted here in the states.
Great post teammate
eloranicole
December 16, 2010
i thought about that too, Jenny. when we walked through kibera one day, we saw kids running up trash heaps like kids in america run up piles of dirt. of course, what’s in the trash is a far cry from what kids here may find in the midst of loose earth. heartbreaking.
laura@life overseas
December 16, 2010
Awww, Man. Girl, I loved this! I loved your very-true, but very-hard-hear statistics. Eye-opening and very hard to ignore. Thanks for caring and for giving us all the challenge.
You rock. Yup.
eloranicole
December 16, 2010
thanks, laura. it’s hard to hear even for me. even though i’ve been there – even though i can still smell the burnt filth and the running stream – it hurts to dwell on those memories because of the pain i saw. but, i know it’s necessary. i know their stories need to be told.
and YOU rock. yup. your story seriously inspires me.
laura@life overseas
December 16, 2010
Dang that typing too fast! Meant to say “very hard TO hear”. oops.